"I am hardly insecure, but you have made it clear in no uncertain terms you loathe me," he said sharply, picking the words deliberately. "I would think seeing me uncomfortable would give you pleasure, am I right?"
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"I am hardly insecure, but you have made it clear in no uncertain terms you loathe me," he said sharply, picking the words deliberately. "I would think seeing me uncomfortable would give you pleasure, am I right?"